What is a Life Coach and When Should You Hire One?

The coaching industry has grown over the past few years.
I worked with my first coach in 2007.
I am a life coach and I love the profession.
Though life coaching has been a way of life for me for 14 years, it's still a new concept for lots of people. Maybe even for you.

In this article, we'll explore:

• what a life coach does;
• what they don't do;
• when you should hire one;
• how long you work with a coach; and,
• how often you meet with your coach.

What a Life Coach Does

Simply put, you hire a life coach to help you reach your goals and dreams. If you desire an exceptional life, you hire a life coach to guide you in getting there, staying there, and growing beyond there.

Professional athletes work with coaches to help them get to and stay at the top of their game. Can you imagine your favorite football team excelling without a coach? Can you imagine Allyson Felix winning 11 Olympic medals without her track & field coach Bob Kersee? I can’t.

You get to be the Olympian of your own life. You get to operate at your highest level on the daily, designing and fulfilling your optimal career and personal experiences. Do what Olympians do. Get a coach and work with them for the duration. Allow yourself to work with someone who's only job is to bring the best of you forward. 
 
A life coach is committed to your goals and dreams. They hold the vision for you on your darkest days. That, right there, is reason enough to have a coach on your team, even if you have supportive and loving family and friends. Your loved ones don't bring the level of neutrality, insight, expertise, background, tools, and training that a professional life coach does.

When I work with clients, I put my best thinking and insight into their problems, challenges, goals, dreams, and successes. I am dedicated to their success just as much as they are. Even when their dedication wanes, mine doesn't. I want for you what you want for yourself. I do everything in my power to help you reach the summit of your success mountain.
 
A life coach also helps you identify your beliefs and behaviors that block you from making progress. Every human has mental and emotional blind spots. A trained coach sees them, tells you about them, and works with you to get out of your own way to achieve the results you seek.

Your coach also sees the greatness in you that you might not even recognize. They show you how awesome you are and work with you to live from your greatness rather than your insecurities.
 
Some coaches are strategy-based and don’t deal with processing emotions. Those coaches help you outline every single step it will take to get from where you are to where you want to be. Other coaches just focus on mindset and emotions. They don’t deal much with action plans and strategies. Instead they help you uncover beliefs that hold you back while developing beliefs that move you forward.

My coaching method is a hybrid of mindset, strategy. and processing emotions. I also stand for your personal wellness as the foundation of everything you want to achieve. That means we create your dream career without sacrificing health, relationships, and the other aspects of life that matter to you. We create harmony in your life as you focus on achieving career satisfaction.
 
There are myriad types of coaches within the coaching field. You have general life coaches that work with you on any topic you bring to them. You also have career coaches, midlife coaches, new mom coaches, self-care coaches, first-generation coaches, coaches for doctors, sexuality coaches. The list of specialties is massive.

As a general life coach, I've worked with college students through seniors on topics ranging from creating a life vision and  finding meaning and purpose to setting boundaries at home/work and developing stand-up comedy material. I now specialize in working with unhappy professionals to create their dream careers with a focus on confidence and vitality.


What a Life Coach Does Not Do

Life coaches do not diagnose nor treat mental health disorders. 
Leave that to licensed psychiatrists and therapists.
Life coaches also generally do not work with clients to process severe trauma, unless that life coach has received specialized training in that realm.
All this being said, you can work with a life coach, psychiatrist, and therapist concurrently. 
There's no rule that says you can only work with one at a time.
I have a life coach, business coach, therapist, and psychiatrist.
All contribute to my well-being.
It takes a village to grow a thriving human.

When You Should Hire a Life Coach

Let's say you’ve read a fair share of personal improvement books with more in your Kindle wish list.
You regularly consume professional development articles.
You listen to a few really good podcasts.
You read great blogs.
You implement exercises from your favorite authors, podcasters, and coaches.
 
Yet you’re not experiencing the forward momentum in your career and personal life that you’d like. You may notice some difference, but overall, you feel the same on the inside.
And you haven't seen the significant changes on the outside.

You wonder

• Why isn’t this working?
• What am I doing wrong?
• What else can I do?

When you ask questions like these, it’s time to hire a life coach.

When you’ve ‘tried a bunch of things’ on your own and life still looks and feels the same, it’s time to hire a life coach.

Even if you don't have any pressing struggles and life is going well, but you just want MORE for your life, it's time to hire a life coach. The person in this scenario often wants to discover their purpose, create more meaning, and develop their next adventure. Get a life coach!

How Long Do You Work with a Coach?

The most straightforward answer is: until you achieve your results. Commitment is what it comes down to. Are you committed to living your dream no matter what? When the answer is an unequivocal yes, you don't care how long it takes. You might want 'sooner' but 'longer' doesn't deter you either. You're just in it until the result is achieved. You're in it until you become the person you want to be.

You could accomplish your goal or dream in 3 months, 6 months, 9 months, 12 months, 2 years, or more. It depends on the complexity of your goal or dream. It depends on you showing up consistently to your coaching sessions. It depends on you implementing what your coach tells you.

Every coach also has their own business model and process. Some coaches only work with clients for a year at a time. Others offer month-to-month packages. There are several options here. 

What's most important is that you resonate with your coach.  
What's most important is that you believe your coach can help you.
What's most important is that you trust your coach.

If you find a coach that you're a 'hell yeah' to, find out how to work with them. Ask them for a consultation. Instead of shopping for coaches based on the duration of their programs, shop for your coach based on the relationship you can develop with them. 

Earlier this year, my kitty Niko came into my life. I decided to keep him with the vet clinic he had already been going to, even though the clinic charges a $100 annual membership fee. (The fee actually came due today.) I've been a cat mama for 13 years and I've never paid a membership fee at other vets.

However, I choose to keep Niko at this $100/annual clinic. Here are a few reasons why:

• I don't waste my time playing phone tag or having drawn out scheduling conversations. The clinic has a user-friendly app where I can email a nurse or doctor with questions about Niko's care as often as I need to. I can also schedule appointments within the app. I receive invoices within the app. My previous vets offered nothing close to this kind of service.
• They care about my baby. The facility offers snacks, treats, and toys in the lobby and in the exam room. Every doc or vet tech I've met handles Niko as if he were their own.
• There are other reasons, but what it all boils down to is this: I have a good relationship with them; I trust their competency and expertise; and I experience a level of service that puts them in a class of their own. 

How Often Do You Meet with Your Coach?

Many coaches work with clients for an hour every single week throughout the term of the coaching program. When I start working with clients, we generally meet once a week for 45-60 min the first two months. As our work together progresses, I give you the option to meet biweekly for 30-45 minutes. 

I believe in potent coaching. It's not about how much time we spend in the session; It's about getting you the results so you can live big outside the sessions. I've found that 60 minutes every week for months on end isn't mandatory. 

One of the biggest misconceptions is that prospective clients think they are paying for the coach's time. You're actually not. What you're paying for is your dream. Your payment to the coach is an investment in YOU. You're telling yourself that your life matters. Your well-being matters. Your success matters. THAT is what's on the line. Not your coach's time.

To put it another way, if you achieved your goal to create your dream career and be in the best shape of your life, how would you have preferred to get there? The duration of the program is 9 months. Both programs below are the same financial investment. 

• Meeting with your coach for 60 minutes every single week
• Meeting with your coach for 45 minutes every other week 

If you told me that I could achieve the same result in less time, then I might even pay more for option 2. Why? Because that coach clearly has a more efficient process. Because I know I won't be wasting my time in those sessions. Because I'll have more time to do other things that I want to do. 

At the end of the day, your coaching schedule is determined with your coach. It does have to work for the both of you, after all.

Like I said earlier, though, I wouldn't focus on 'how long' and 'how often'.
Put your prime attention on feeling a connection with the person you'll hire to help you.
Remember, you'll be sharing intimate details about your life with them. Make sure you like them.

If you have more questions about life coaching, send me a message or include your comment below. 

And if you're ready for a consultation, I'd be happy to hear from you.
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