Life, Work & Mindset Coaching for Black and Brown Women
Embrace your divine power.
Feel good about who you are.
Speak your truth often at work and at home.
Fulfill your dreams, desires, and goals to live more of the life you want.
Dismantle white-supremacist patriarchy and internalized racism from your mind & body.
Cultivate an excellent relationship with yourself.
Create the life and work you adore.
Feel good about who you are.
Speak your truth often at work and at home.
Fulfill your dreams, desires, and goals to live more of the life you want.
Dismantle white-supremacist patriarchy and internalized racism from your mind & body.
Cultivate an excellent relationship with yourself.
Create the life and work you adore.
Greetings, I'm Valerie!
Start by watching this video to get a clear picture of who I am and why I have this coaching practice.
Start by watching this video to get a clear picture of who I am and why I have this coaching practice.
P. Valerie Dauphin,
Founder of Feel Good Kick Ass™
Founder of Feel Good Kick Ass™
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I work with private clients for 6 months of weekly coaching. If you want this level of support for whatever you want to create or change in your life, then schedule an appointment with me below.
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Join Black Women Feeling Good and Kicking Ass on MEETUP
This is a community for Black women to connect in person and virtually. In-person events take place in Los Angeles. Because we have virtual events, you can live outside of L.A. and still join.
Smashing Patriarchy on CLUBHOUSE
I've been an active member of this group since January 2022 and have moderated several conversations on the topics listed below. We have an extensive replay library that serves as a sort of podcast. Browse previous conversations and view upcoming events by selecting the Join the Club button below.

Join us as we explore: 💥 The rise and history of Patriarchy 💥 How Patriarchy is a system of domination, dehumanisation, slavery and oppression 💥 How we dismantle and emancipate ourselves from Patriarchy 💥 How we heal and restore the divine feminine, and step into our divine sovereignty ————————————————————— Topics discussed:🗣 Patriarchy • Feminism • Intersectionality • Oppression • Systemic Oppression • Social Justice • Imperialism • Capitalism • White Supremacy • Violence and Abuse • Trauma • Intergenerational Trauma • Healing • Empowerment • Women’s Empowerment • Dysfunctional and Anti Social Behaviour • Mental Health • Culture • Power and Control Dynamics • Dismantling • Abolition • Advocacy • Activism • History and Ancient/Indigenous Knowledge • Policy, Systems and Institutionalisation • Geopolitics • Global Development • Global North/South Relations • The Role of Media and Tech •———— The definition/s of Patriarchy we refer to in this club are as defined by bell hooks: “Patriarchy is a political-social system where males are endowed with the right to dominate and rule over the weak and maintain that dominance through various forms of psychological terrorism and violence.” We discuss the rise of patriarchy across history and cultures, but default to Patriarchy in its current euro-centric form being the interlocking political systems of “Imperialist White-Supremacist Capitalist Patriarchy” also as defined by hooks, and/or the “Matrix of Domination” as defined by Patricia Hill Collins.
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The Best Happiness Advice People Learned in Therapy
Black Americans and Wealth: Understanding the Racial Wealth Gap
Exclusive with P. Valerie Dauphin, Founder of Feel Good Kick Ass
How to Manage Your Micromanaging Boss Before They Manage You
25 Red Flags in a Relationship to Watch Out For
UPenn Research Paper - Sarcasm in Relationships
Pay attention to the things you talk yourself OUT of doing or saying today. Not to shit on yourself. Just as an observation. If you want to experience more magic, synchronicity, and connection in your life, notice your intuitive breadcrumbs. And follow them. - Valerie
BONUS: A Quiz for Admin Professionals
I've had admin jobs and felt all kinds of frustrations before deciding to part ways with the profession. I created this quiz to support current admins in the struggle. Your quiz result comes with an action plan to help you determine your next step to more satisfying and fulfilling pastures.